What does Friendship Mean to You?

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What does friendship mean to me? Hmm…that’s a tough question. Nah, just kidding! Friendship is the most important aspect of my life. I’m not just talking about any friendship in general, I meant the legit ‘ride or die' kind of friendship. To me, friendship is about finding someone who shares the same interests as you and obviously also embracing the differences. It is about having someone to call at 1am and just talk about life till the wee hours in the morning. Friendship is about telling all your secrets to them and trusting them that the secret remains between the both of you. What I cherish the most in a friendship is that having that ONE person who sticks by your side no matter what through thick and thin and is a phone call away. The kind of friendship where they will stand up for you and have your back when you’re not around. 

Enough about blabbering on the importance of a friendship. Let me share my story about my friendship with you. Now, I won’t mention any names, but this person is a “she” and if you’re reading this, you will surely know if I’m talking about you or not. This friend of mine matters to me the most. I can’t imagine my daily life without her presence. Why? Because she is my best friend, my other half, my ‘ride or die.’ What I love the most about our friendship is that we are extremely comfortable with each other. Comfortable in a sense is where we can talk about everything and anything together. Even if the things I’m about to tell her are going to make me feel uncomfortable, I know that I can trust her to be a listener when I need one.

She’s not the same as my other friends that I have. She’s…. special. She’s the kind of friend that would come check up on me if I stay quiet for too long. She’s also that friend that will call me when I’m caught up with piles of work and I’ll get so distracted that I’ll end up talking to her for an hour or two on the phone. Like seriously, where can you get a best friend like that? On Shopee? On Amazon? On eBay? Nope! She’s a blessing, a gift that words can’t describe how much she means to me.

Honestly, I know I don’t tell her enough how much I appreciate her but deep down, I will actually cry if anything happens to her or even just by thinking about her migrating to another country. So, I’m grateful, thankful to have met her and have her being my rock and pillar. 

P.S. the picture below is an illustration of me and her.

Written by: 
Jasmyne (StudentInk writer) 👭🥺🖤💜



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